Can a massage be better than sex?

Can a massage be better than sex?

Our question is: Can a massage be better than sex ?

Well, you tell me, but here are some things that could contribute to you having a great massage. How massage is more effective than sex regarding relaxation and stress relief; nothing beats a good massage. But what if massage could be better than sex? It may sound impossible, but with the right technique and mindset, it's definitely possible. In this blog post, I will show you how to have a truly relaxing and enjoyable massage for you and your partner.

First and foremost, mood matters. We want to create a relaxed atmosphere that invites you to relax and let go. That means dim lighting, soft music, and a comfortable temperature. You can also use candles and essential oils to enhance the atmosphere. Communication is also important. Discuss desired areas of pressure and tension with your partner before beginning the massage. Ask if there are any places you want to avoid. This ensures your massage is tailored to your individual needs and preferences. As for technique, it is important to use long strokes, kneads, and circular motions with your hands and fingers. Incorporate stretching and range of motion exercises to release tension and improve flexibility. Pay attention to how your partner's body reacts while observing breathing and muscle tension. Adjust your technique accordingly.

Another important aspect of a good massage is good oil or lotion. This makes the massage more relaxing and improves the glide of your hands on the skin. In addition, the right oils and lotions have a therapeutic effect. As for the duration of the massage, a minimum of 30 minutes is recommended for best results. However, if you and your partner enjoy it, you can certainly go longer. Finally, we will focus on relaxation techniques such as deep breathing, visualization, and gentle touch. This will help your partner transition from massage to a state of complete relaxation. Massage, rather than sex, requires a combination of technique, communication, and a comfortable environment.


You can provide a truly relaxing and enjoyable massage by setting your mood, communicating effectively, using the right technique, and focusing on relaxation. Keep in mind the stresses of the day can totally change with one simple suggestion, "Baby, would you like a rub?”. Remember to take the time to understand your partner's needs and create a safe and comfortable environment. With these tips, you can have a massage better than sex in no time! If it isn’t better than sex, screw it (literally!), remove your clothes, and get to doing what you two do best, have sex! We suggest using Soign’s Beauty oil to try to achieve this. The Vanilla scent can be inexplicably arousing to your senses. If you don’t believe me, check the reviews for yourself. This luxurious oil can be found on, Amazon prime, and Walmart. 


Happy relaxing!